We Don't Live To Impress People

This post contains tons of rambling.

This community we're living in, there are times when it is too good to be true (but it's very rare tho).
And when it's bad, it's really bad.

When someone can't handle the community he/she is living in, it leads to anxiety, depression, and the worst, suicide. Sebab dalam minda orang tu, he/she thinks that he/she is not worth it. People will always say something about what she does, who she is and everything about her. Okay lets just say it's a she (I'm having a hard time writing he/she).

Humans are imperfect. That's what community exists for; to help each other and create a harmony in life. And what happens today is the opposite to the real reason community exists. People spread hate instead of love, they backbite, gossip, share the stories that they don't even know whether it's true or not. This world is so fucked up.

Someone that lives in this kind of community would be stressed because she'll keep doing everything to impress those people in that community just to fit in. When that someone fits in, she would start to feel scared to go out and meet people because she isn't the same with them.

Let me tell you something. Just because you aren't the same with other people, it doesn't mean you don't belong in the community. Every people has different traits. There are a lot of parts in a community. Just because you don't fit in some parts, doesn't mean you wouldn't fit anywhere. You belong somewhere, and if finding the place where you belong is taking a long time, then wait. Keep living, learning.

Stop doing things just to impress people if you're not willing to do it. Do things for your self. Kalau kau buat suatu benda tu just to impress people, you'll never find the real purpose for your life, you'll never actually live.

Bila kau hidup, sila hidup sebagai manusia, bukan sebagai robot. 

"To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that's all." - Oscar Wilde

Pypaa. xoxo


  1. " Stop doing things just to impress people if you're not willing to do it. "

    My forever quote that similar to this is, " Do what you love and love what you do."

    1. I agree with your quote, we should always do what we love and love what we do. That's simply one of the ingredients to be happy :)


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